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Kids, Dogs and Divorce

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Written by Melissa Lafreniere, MA,RP, QFAS As a parenting mediator and psychotherapist, I help separating couples make agreements that prioritize their children throughout the separation and divorce process. I recently had a couple approach me with this exact question. Before making the difficult decision to separate, they had recently added a fun loving golden retriever named Scout to their family. To complicate matters, they also had 3 beautiful children who were absolutely in love with …

Leaving a job to stay at home? 3 things to discuss first

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Staying at home to raise your children and maintain a home is a full-time job. As such, many parents ultimately leave another job to do this. Whether leaving the workforce is something you want to do or must do, it can be a big change. In fact, it may likely trigger some critical conversations with your partner. Below are a few specific things you may want to discuss before leaving a job. Financial support Losing …

5 missteps that can derail a peaceful divorce

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Divorce can be a painful enough process without the complications that litigation can present. As such, many people pursue more peaceful dispute resolution methods like mediation. However, there are some missteps people make that can derail the mediation process. These mistakes are generally avoidable, especially if you know what they are from the beginning. Releasing your anger on social media – Venting frustration about a divorce or your ex online can seem cathartic. However, if …

What is Mediation?

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Mediation is a legal process that allows two parties to resolve a conflict on their own. Each party may have their own legal counsel to advise them on how to position their needs or goals, but the process itself is usually between a meditator and the two parties. It’s a form of alternative dispute resolution, which means that the discussions and negotiations happen outside of a courtroom. If you have a list of items that …

Workplace issues during Ontario separation and divorce

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Some people work to live, while others live to work. With 24/7 access to work tasks that modern technology provides, more Canadians spend more time working than ever. Whether this is a rational way to live is debatable, but when Ontario couples are undergoing separation and divorce while also working, stress levels can lead to burn-out. It doesn’t have to be that way. Many employers have employee assistance programmes (EAP) which include counselling and legal …

Tricked into parenthood?

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A handful of clients have come into my office with statements such as: “she told me she was on the pill”, “she told me she could not get pregnant”, “I clearly told her I did not want children”, and the classic “she told me that if she ever got pregnant, she would take care of the child on her own”. The follow-up question is often “do I still have to pay child support?”. The answer …